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	<title>Comments on: Blog Tour: Not of My Making: Bullying, Scapegoating and Misconduct</title>
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	<description>from survivor to thriver</description>
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		<title>By: Margaret</title>
		<link>http://notofmymaking.com/blog/2009/04/21/blog-tour-not-of-my-making-bullying-scapegoating-and-misconduct/comment-page-1/#comment-719</link>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 17:08:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I suspect all marketing is hard work. The internet provides opportunities for authors to promote their book without the backing of a large publisher. In addition to the blog tour I have done presentations and set up a booth at craft and vendor fairs. I&#039;m always looking for ways to promote my book. What makes it harder than writing the book  is book sales depend on the acceptance and behavior of other people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I suspect all marketing is hard work. The internet provides opportunities for authors to promote their book without the backing of a large publisher. In addition to the blog tour I have done presentations and set up a booth at craft and vendor fairs. I&#8217;m always looking for ways to promote my book. What makes it harder than writing the book  is book sales depend on the acceptance and behavior of other people.</p>
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		<title>By: Dominic Gonzales</title>
		<link>http://notofmymaking.com/blog/2009/04/21/blog-tour-not-of-my-making-bullying-scapegoating-and-misconduct/comment-page-1/#comment-717</link>
		<dc:creator>Dominic Gonzales</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 May 2010 16:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think Book Marketing takes more effort compared to e-mail marketing and social media marketing.;.`</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think Book Marketing takes more effort compared to e-mail marketing and social media marketing.;.`</p>
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		<title>By: One Survivor</title>
		<link>http://notofmymaking.com/blog/2009/04/21/blog-tour-not-of-my-making-bullying-scapegoating-and-misconduct/comment-page-1/#comment-544</link>
		<dc:creator>One Survivor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 12:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes...I thought he asked really good questions, too. Very insightful. I would love to see you go for that goal. 

Hmmmm...am I in leadership? Well, not in the way most would think. 
I have been in leadership previously, but have no official position at the moment...nor do I seek one. 

I think there are some who just naturally look to me as a sort of leader simply due to the fact that I have walked along time with Him. They seem to think that I have some wisdom, although I see how much I still don&#039;t know and understand. I definitely have strength of faith, which also seems to draw some.

I do have a little bit of influence with some leaders in the sense that I have a prayer email that I sporadically send out to ones I know, both in person and via the net. So, in a sense, you could say that I have their &quot;ear&quot;. However, I am always careful to make sure that it is never a burdensome thing for them, if you know what I mean. The emails are sent without expecting any response and I have never moved beyond simply praying for them, although I do have some other interactions with some of them.

I am also part of a webgroup that includes some leaders (although I am not sure how many). I mentioned that one to you previously. There might be something you can do in connection with that group that might be beneficial to both leaders and to congregants who have been around congregational/leader abuse. If nothing else, they do have many pages of resources where you could possibly list your book and anything that you might write up for leaders regarding this subject. I know that there have been some workshops done on the site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes&#8230;I thought he asked really good questions, too. Very insightful. I would love to see you go for that goal. </p>
<p>Hmmmm&#8230;am I in leadership? Well, not in the way most would think.<br />
I have been in leadership previously, but have no official position at the moment&#8230;nor do I seek one. </p>
<p>I think there are some who just naturally look to me as a sort of leader simply due to the fact that I have walked along time with Him. They seem to think that I have some wisdom, although I see how much I still don&#8217;t know and understand. I definitely have strength of faith, which also seems to draw some.</p>
<p>I do have a little bit of influence with some leaders in the sense that I have a prayer email that I sporadically send out to ones I know, both in person and via the net. So, in a sense, you could say that I have their &#8220;ear&#8221;. However, I am always careful to make sure that it is never a burdensome thing for them, if you know what I mean. The emails are sent without expecting any response and I have never moved beyond simply praying for them, although I do have some other interactions with some of them.</p>
<p>I am also part of a webgroup that includes some leaders (although I am not sure how many). I mentioned that one to you previously. There might be something you can do in connection with that group that might be beneficial to both leaders and to congregants who have been around congregational/leader abuse. If nothing else, they do have many pages of resources where you could possibly list your book and anything that you might write up for leaders regarding this subject. I know that there have been some workshops done on the site.</p>
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		<title>By: Margaret</title>
		<link>http://notofmymaking.com/blog/2009/04/21/blog-tour-not-of-my-making-bullying-scapegoating-and-misconduct/comment-page-1/#comment-543</link>
		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 11:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I liked the questions futurist guy asked. One of my goals is to put together a seminar for clergy and religious leaders. Futurist guy with his questions helped move me one step closer to that goal. One Survivor are you involved with church leadership?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liked the questions futurist guy asked. One of my goals is to put together a seminar for clergy and religious leaders. Futurist guy with his questions helped move me one step closer to that goal. One Survivor are you involved with church leadership?</p>
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		<title>By: One Survivor</title>
		<link>http://notofmymaking.com/blog/2009/04/21/blog-tour-not-of-my-making-bullying-scapegoating-and-misconduct/comment-page-1/#comment-542</link>
		<dc:creator>One Survivor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 02:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi! I have been trying to read along with your blog tour. It seems to be going well. I am very glad for you and really appreciate the things you have written along the way. Very insightful!

I hope that you write up something along the lines of what you wrote on futurist guy&#039;s blog. You seem to have a pretty good handle on what is needed to help leaders in congregations to prevent and help eliminate (as much as is possible, anyway) abuse in the congregational relationships.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi! I have been trying to read along with your blog tour. It seems to be going well. I am very glad for you and really appreciate the things you have written along the way. Very insightful!</p>
<p>I hope that you write up something along the lines of what you wrote on futurist guy&#8217;s blog. You seem to have a pretty good handle on what is needed to help leaders in congregations to prevent and help eliminate (as much as is possible, anyway) abuse in the congregational relationships.</p>
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		<title>By: Working Things Out(?) and Odds and Ends &#171; A Survivor&#8217;s Thoughts on Life</title>
		<link>http://notofmymaking.com/blog/2009/04/21/blog-tour-not-of-my-making-bullying-scapegoating-and-misconduct/comment-page-1/#comment-533</link>
		<dc:creator>Working Things Out(?) and Odds and Ends &#171; A Survivor&#8217;s Thoughts on Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 01:23:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I am very grateful that our leaders have stepped up to the plate, desiring to do things Yahweh&#8217;s way, unlike the leaders that Dr. Margaret Jones&#8217; describes that she had to deal with. Boy am I glad! I would never wish on someone the things she experienced. You can read more about what she dealt with in her book which I reviewed here.  She also has a blog here. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I am very grateful that our leaders have stepped up to the plate, desiring to do things Yahweh&#8217;s way, unlike the leaders that Dr. Margaret Jones&#8217; describes that she had to deal with. Boy am I glad! I would never wish on someone the things she experienced. You can read more about what she dealt with in her book which I reviewed here.  She also has a blog here. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Join Me on Monday, May 4th for a “Virtual Book Tour” Visit from Dr. Margaret Jones &#171; futuristguy</title>
		<link>http://notofmymaking.com/blog/2009/04/21/blog-tour-not-of-my-making-bullying-scapegoating-and-misconduct/comment-page-1/#comment-531</link>
		<dc:creator>Join Me on Monday, May 4th for a “Virtual Book Tour” Visit from Dr. Margaret Jones &#171; futuristguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 03:07:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] See Dr. Jones&#8217; Blog Tour post for a summary of her Virtual Tour to date, and her thoughts on the different stops she&#8217;s had [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] See Dr. Jones&#8217; Blog Tour post for a summary of her Virtual Tour to date, and her thoughts on the different stops she&#8217;s had [...]</p>
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